My views have changed.

I was pro-life, anti-abortion most of my life. I was also a Christian and had a mother and husband that talked of how selfish women were for not having more than 2 children or not having more children if the husband wanted them. It was such a culture of anything you wanted for yourself was 'selfish'.

As I started doing a lot of counseling and assuming responsibility for my life, my body, listening to my body that was not doing well due to emotional abuse I lived with culturally, in family system and within myself, my views have changed. I also witnessed many family members going through miscarriages, tubular pregnancies and marrying because of a pregnancy. Wanting bodily autonomy for women and women seeing their value is what I long for.